Thursday, March 12, 2009

Is it just me...

I don't read a lot of blogs, but I read a few. A reocurring theme I see is the ones written by women all talk about their wonderful husbands. Well, is it just me or does ANYONE HAVE A BAD DAY???

What exactly is the bloggy world rule on that? We only speak of our spouse when things are good? Zip the lips when it's...what's the word...not so good?

Maybe we read between the lines and see that, hmmm, she hasn't mentioned him lately so he must have done something pretty idiotic.

Oh, wait. No. Two days later and she mentions him, so it must have been only mildly idiotic. Maybe two weeks of husband non-mention would be more along the lines of pretty idiotic.

4 comments:

mary said...

I simply don't elaborate on the more 'negative' things for this reason; if I post on things he does or says that frustrate me enough to want to post it, he might sound bad and he isn't. So I feel like once it is in print and posted you can't take it back. like a grudge or something. Does he do or say things that frustrate me? YES.

mary said...

That gives me an idea!! Maybe I'll do a 'why I love him anyway Thursday' or something....hmmm.

Anonymous said...

Well I don't exactly think you were referring to my blog...or was you? Come to think of it I don't mention Chris much at all...positive or negative!! I think like Mary said that you kind of hate to post a bunch of bad things about your hubby just because it would make them seem bad and they aint really that bad all the time...just some of the time!! Girl if I got started posting the bad stuff I could probably write a book..lol! Of course he could probably write a book about me to...so we won't go there!

MamaHen said...

I agree with Carrie and Mary. Of course, my hubby is perfect, but I wouldn't want a laundry list of other hubby's quirks. :) If Mark started writing all that was wrong with me he would never finish.